| Parents have many expectations throughout the eighteen to twenty
years of rearing children. A mother makes a wise decision when she chooses
to stay home with her children. We, as Christian mothers, have an enormous
responsibility for not only our children's physical growth but, more importantly,
for their spiritual growth. We need to focus their young lives around Christ.
Hence, parents should demonstrate righteous living before their children
and develop godly character in them. Unfortunately, this generation is slowly
forgetting not only good moral principles, but it demonstrates a lack of
dependency on God. How can we successfully teach our young with so much
wickedness in the world today?
First, we must introduce them to Jesus Christ. This
is done from the time they are a babe until they are grown. We can accomplish
this paramount obligation by the lives we live in front of our children.
How many times do our children imitate us and what we do? What greater
lifestyle to follow than that of Christ?
Second, we must instruct them through Bible study (2
Tim. 2:15). As our children grow, we can teach them the Bible in different
ways. Whether it is reading a Bible story to them at bedtime, or enjoying
a family devotional, or taking them to Bible class, or reviewing what they
have studied our young people can grow in God's Word (2 Pet. 3:18). As
we sometimes sing with them, "Read your Bible, pray everyday, and you'll
grow, grow, grow.
Third, we must inform them of the dangers and temptations
in the world. Although we cannot always understand the reasons for the
shootings, murders, perversion, and all other wickedness in our nation
today, we do know that our society is becoming numb to all the corruption
in our world. People no longer blush at sin (Jer. 6:15). We must inform
our children of how God wants us to live (Prov. 3:6; Heb. 11:25), and train
them accordingly (Prov. 22:6).
Fourth, we must ignite in our children a love for Christ
that will never fade. We must teach them that as Christians we are the
light of the world (Matt. 5:14-16). They must never be ashamed to defend
Christ and His Word (Rom. 1:16). They must realize that it is imperative
to stand for what is right (2 Tim. 3:12).
Through these actions, we demonstrate a deep love for our
children. Even now when I look upon my cherished children, I have a desire
to share with them the sweet story of Jesus. As a Christian parent, I want
to bring them up in the nurture and the admonition of he Lord (Eph. 6:4),
so one day they will be prepared to obey the gospel of Christ , and I trust
they will then want to share the plan of salvation with others. Are these
unrealistic goals for a parent to set? I think not! After all, our children
are a prized possession we can take to heaven! Don't you want to take your
child?
THE POWER OF A WOMAN
Kim Lindley
The power of a woman is greatly underestimated. In fact, women
exert such a strong influence on society that we can get a picture of a
nation's spiritual health by looking at the spiritual health of the women
in that nation. God's plan is for women to be "holy, discreet, chaste, keepers
at home, good and obedient to their own husbands" (Titus 2:4-5). But, when
that plans is not obeyed a nation is destined to fall.
In Isaiah 3:16-24 we read of the corrupt nation of Judah,
God's chosen people. God had blessed His people, but they had not been faithful
to Him. Isaiah, inspired by God, regarded vain and haughty women as a contributing
factor to the corruption and fall of Judah. These women were supposed to
be children of God. They knew God's commandments, but apparently had little
respect for them. God charged these women with being haughty, proud and
arrogant. These ungodly women of Judah sought attention by the way they
walked; they were condemned for their proud posture, seductive eyes and
indecent dress. Their motive was to lure married and unmarried men to sin.
Isaiah tells of twenty-one items the women of Judah possessed,
from anklets to head ties, perfume boxes to mirrors, and several different
types of clothing. However, these items used by the women to beautify themselves
were not the problem. Neither Isaiah nor Peter (I Peter 3:1-5) condemns
women for adorning themselves. God wants women to look their best and to
enjoy luxurious things. But the problem comes when women-like the women
of Judah- are selfish, materialistic, proud and sensuous. When women develop
these characteristics, following the world with its lust and lascivious
ways, untold harm can and will be done. Corrupt women make corrupt men,
and corrupt men lead nations into moral decay. The problem begins when women
abandon their God-given roles.
The women of Judah were similar to many women of America today.
God has been so good to America. We are a free country, a country blessed
with the best of material things. We have spiritual freedom and have accumulated
more knowledge than any nation before us. With all these blessings, many
Christian women are failing to see the inconsistency of patterning their
conduct and dress after the world. This worldly influence has caused much
of the problems we have in society and in our homes today. The problems
are both in the world and in the Lord's church. A return to the Bible and
God's pattern for the home is the answer for a troubled nation.
God wants Christian women to influence our nation, to be God-fearing,
holy and pure. Women can strive for no higher purpose than living a faithful
Christian life. Godly women produce godly nations. Let's never underestimate
the influence of a woman. Her influence can cause a nation to rise or fall.
"Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people"
(Proverbs 14:34).
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